i was surfing the net while watching tv in my room. and suddenly, the advertisement in suria was showing about ungu. yes, ungu came to town on 31st october, which was a week ago to perform at esplanade. wish to go but yet didn't have enough cash to fork out actually.

but that's not my main point. the moment ungu sang "tercipta untukku" at the end of the advertisement, i remembered my baby who is resting at his home right now. why him? he dedicated this song to me. before we were together, he said to me that, that particular song reminds him of me. if you understand the lyrics, you know how sweet & meaningful the song is. and it's even more perfect at this moment when i'm in love with him. and i really do want him to be right by my side all the time. indeed always. and hopefully forever. insya-allah.

"relationships are about what you out in and what you take out. And the only people who can judge the worth of what they receive are the people in the commitment. It can be best be valued by the person who give it to."

the above sentences got me to stunned. i was reading my independent portfolio for my english course. and one of the readings have the following in the passage. and it got me thinking.

i got to agree with the above sentences. in fact relationship are about lots of things:

1. trust - you have to trust your partner. the more you trust your partner, i bet you that the more your partner will loves you too.

2. commitment - relationship without commitment is like losing someone you loved in your life. both of them have to be paced on together. without commitment, your relationship seems to be lots of problems. and commitment means both parties have to commit to each other.

3. fall in love - when i say falling in love means your love for your partner grows stronger and stronger each and every single day.

4. best friend - your partner is the only person who deserved to be your best friends. like jiha said to me, "when they are our best friends, they will then be able to share every single thing in their life with us"; in which i gonna agreed with her.

5. sharing a cup of tea together - it does not mean physically sharing a cup of tea together. basically, it's about sharing every single thing in your life together with your partner. without fail, share with them. that's the main time when you both will know each other better. and even include everything that is part of your life.

6. giving in - you have to give in to your partner most of the time. throw your ego away. same goes to your partner. the moment your ego overcome your feelings for your partner, your feelings, care and concern for your partner will start to fade away.

7. sacrifices - this is either important too besides trust. you have to sacrifies most of your stuff for your partner. either you sacrifies your free time, your energy, etc. but this sacrifies should not come by force. it should be come by inner you, being sincerely sacrificing for your partner.

8. intimate moments - not literally have sex of course. but being with each other, spending your time together and talk things out will definitely know your partner inside out better.

9. missing your partner - the moment you are separated from your partner and there is this kind of missing feeling occur in your heart, simply because you are falling in love with your partner. deeply. you will only miss your partner when you sincerely love your partner.

10. sincerity - every single thing that you gonna do, from the (1) - (9) things about relationships have to be sincere. and definitely, you sincerely in love with your partner. when you are sincerely in love with your partner, thus, you will care for your partner, you will never have the intension to hurt your partner too. so, happily ever after.

well, those are some of the things that should be in a relationship. only then, you will be happy in your relationship. but still, there are some other things that some of you might think of too. different people have different thoughts. but actually, to me, there's a lot more others to include too. if were to mentioned, it will never end. haha.

basically, i accompany my baby just now to do his night arrears. i smiled all way long. coz every step that we took just reminds me of what happened in the past. we spend our time working together. on how he helped me to do night arrears and vice versa. how we tease each other along. how we jokes around while tiring working too. and how chemistry between us start to spark around between us. and here we are now.

i love you baby. and i'm missing you badly right now. =(