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Her.
To love is nothing.
To be loved is something.
To be loved by the one you love is everything.
Monday, March 23, 2009 / 6:37 PM
5 types of vitamins that are needed in a relationship
1. praise one another (puji-memuji)
couples have to practice this way, booster up each other happiness eventhough your partner is not in a mood. by, doing this, your partner realise that you are actually liking his or her way of doing things. be it small or big, no matter when or whatever reason, do praise your partner often.
2. appreciate each other (penghargaan)
your partner will be glad if you appreciate their work. like mentioned above, no matter how big or small he or she do to you, always appreciate their work. everytime your partner does something to you, appreciate them. although the events or activities that he or she did is too little to be appreciate. show it to them so that they know that you appreciate them. even if your partner didn't express that to you, make the first move eventhough you are a lady. your man will slowly follow your way of appreciating things.
3. attentive towards each other (perhatian)
this is every important. 70% of couples who look into each other when they are both talking, simply show how much they love each other. attention has to be given to your partner in whatever situation so that they know that you are in love with them and care for them even if you both are far apart.
4. mutual understanding (persefahaman)
if both you did not have any mutual understanding, how can both of you adapt to each other. behind a successful man, lies a woman. and same goes to the women. women will be much happier if their men will always understand them. always in fault is when the way men understand their women in a wrong way. simply because men are from mars, women are from venus. so, both have to understand each other and well as knowing where their strengths and weaknesses lies within them. do find alternative ways if the first way of trying to understand your partner didn't make it.
5. gratitude (permohonan)
in malay, bersyukur dengan apa yang ada. you have to be gratitude towards your partner coz most of your time are about him or her. you spent most of your hours thinking about you partner, missing your partner, talking with your partner and spending time with your partner. no matter how short the time is for couples to meet with each other, it is well being gratitude as well. and you will be glad having him or her as your partner eventhough you both is or has also faced many obstacles along the relationship. indeed, it makes you both a stronger person and stronger relationship as well.
*wink*
Saturday, March 21, 2009 / 3:25 PM
happy birthday to you..
happy birthday to you..
happy birthday to hanafi..
happy birthday to you..
HAPPY 32ND BIRTHDAY BABY...!
finally, the time i have been waiting for. after a long time of preparing & planning for his birthday. although we didn't had much things to do, events happened simply simple but we did have fun.
once again, happy birthday sayang.. wishing you all the best in everything you do & may all your dreams come true. and hope that this birthday is better than years previously. and i pray for our long-last relationship so that i could celebrate your birthday again in years ahead.
everything start on the day before his birthday. i planned together with the colleagues to have a lunch treat. which falls on 12 march 2009. i managed to get a car & same goes to mike. we head to jurong point for lunch. fig & olive here we come.
it's to celebrate both jiahui & baby birthday.
11 march 09 - happy birthday jiahui!
13 march 09 - baby birthday.
and let me tell you this. the food is really nice & delicious. there is lunch set meal which cost $15.90 before gst & service charge of of course. choose within 3 types of main course & it comes together with the soup of the day & a soft-drink, tea or coffee.
both me & baby ordered the fish melted cheese. it's so nice. it's simply fish & chips set meal but there is a spoonful of melted cheese on top of the fishes. yummy! and even when i'm typing this down, i just feel like eating it again. shall we baby? i bet you that once you ate the meal, you will be like "sleepy". haha. coz, it's really filling.
p/s: we did took pictures when we were at fig & olive but it's in huimin's camera. haven't get the pictures yet from her & cailing as well. once i got it, will post it for sure.
after lunch - we head to one of the void-deck near office. we picked up the swensens ice cream that we ordered for desert. hehe. and it's really yummy. well, enjoyed the pictures below.
the ice-cream cake.
chocolate cake.
2 candles. one for my baby. one for jiahui. we can't have 57 candles ryte? hahaha.
all cailing's plan to put their middle name on the cake. jiajia still sounds not bad. but nana for my baby? it's really a girl's name. haha.
from left: huimin, cailing, jiahui.
from left: jiahui, skye, baby & mike (facing back of the camera).
cutting cake time.
jiahui cuts the cake.
candid jiahui & baby (looking at cailing's camera).
my honour birthday boys. oopz, they no longer boy already. should be men. hehe.
baby, muka maintain lah sayang. ahakz.
happy sayang i nie. hehe.
baby cuts the cake.
baby, i melted looking at your face. it always put a smile on my face. happy birthday baby!
last but not least - group photo. but sadly, didn't manage to get the picture together with the cake. gonna take from cailing the other photo coz hers have the cake as well in the picture.
well, everything goes on smoothly despite the last minute breaking news that huimin's grandmother passed away. and that's the reason why most of us were in black. coz we went to visit the wake after work then. even raja (our lighting contractor) was there by coincidence. hehe. so, we stayed there till around 7pm.
next plan.
baby met his friends at teh tarik. 2 of his friends. talk, laughter and jokes were there. around 9pm, we move off.
next.
we headed off to east coast lagoon to have satay. suddenly, i'm craving for satay. and in the car, both of us were talking about mee soto at 959 jw. delicious. and when i reached there, i had soto ayam & together with satay. yum yum.
wanted to sit down and relax at the beach but baby insisted. so, we move on to town. no sense of direction. no where to go. haha. by the time, it's already 1115pm. i parked at the padang carpark and we sit down there. baby settled his stuff with his conservancy contractor coz he will be away from 4 days going back kampung later on saturday. by the time when everything finished, he's back sitting in the car right next beside me & the time showed 1145pm. means, 15 more minutes. and it's countdown time for me.
1200am. 13 march 2009.
looking at baby and wish him happy birthday together with a birthday kiss. and at the same time, i sent out a birthday sms for him.
"happy 32nd birthday baby! may all your wishes come true & hope that this year birthday gives you much happiness that you need. enjoy your birthday! hope you didn't regret celebrating it with me. looking forward for upcoming years, celebrating with you again. and it'll be better insya-allah. stay young at heart & starting today, you'll look 23 instead of 32. ;-) love you baby. muacks! :-*"
baby replied to me verbally, "thanks baby".
next step. it's present time. and i can't wait to see his reaction upon giving him the present. hehe. it's something that he dream of having it. and now, he has it. hehehe.
i said, "baby, i can't buy you ps3 as what you wish but this is small token for me to you on your birthday. hope you like it."
baby was surprised that it's such a big present anyway. haha. but it's isn't big afterall. kotak jek besar. ahakz.
and the timing was just nice. my dedication for baby through class 95 went out through the radio.
"that song goes to hanafi. from sri. hanafi, wishing you happy birthday. may god bless you in everything you do. hopefully this year ahead gonna be better for you. stay young @ heart and i love you dear. hanafi, that's goes to you from sri."
baby smiled and said, "so touching".
great. just so great. everything goes on smoothly.
next. baby wanna opened up the present but i stopped him. i told him to read the card first which is placed on top of the box. i mean, one at a time. so, he goes on opening the card.
"to my dearest baby, abu hanafiah."
"for the man i love. i know that on your birthday you don't like a lot of fuss. and mushy, gooey sentiment just makes you want to cuss. i guess you might be happier if i would just ignore ya...."
"....but honey, that's impossible because i just adore ya! happy birthday."
the card is perfect. and baby loves the card indeed. great that he loves it.
so now (drumroll)..... it's present time. haha.
so, whay do you think is inside the box?
baby opened the box covered and was in total surprised! he opened & closed back. and opened again, cover his face with the box cover. and look at me. with a great smile. and long ear to ear smile. and he looked at me again. surprised. speechless.
"baby, you've spent a lot for this. you shouldn't have," he said to me.
"it's not a problem. i have already save my money every now and then to buy for you this. coz i know you wanna have this. in fact, i've started saving from the beginning when i'm with you. you don't have to worry. as long as you love it, i enjoyed it too", i replied to him
and it's........
yup, it's a psp just for you baby!
and so, it goes on me teaching him how to use the thing. a bit hard at first i know but you'll get used to it for sure. and again an again, he's just speechless & still surprised with it.
with the 2 kisses on my forehead, just melted me down.
baby, i love you so much that i willing to do anything for you. like the song, everything i do, i do it for you. hehe. how much i spent is not a problem for me. and i don't expect for any return as well baby. the only thing i want from you is your love & care for me. that's more than enough. coz i'm simply deeply in love with you sayang. i don't know how you do what you do, i'm so in love with you as mentioned by lonestar. it goes same to me. i just hope to be with you till end of time. whatever that makes you happy will make me happy too. that's love is all about anyway.
i know baby is speechless. the only thing he mentioned is "thank you" plus "so much". he really don't know what else to said. and he even mentioned, not only about thankful but also about gratitude.
i'm so touched by this words. thanks baby for all those. that's good enough to make me happy.
the way he look at me still fresh in my mind. and makes me to miss me so much when he's away to kampung for 4 days. gosh!
and now, when his back, it's just great to have him by my side again. i love you baby!
Wednesday, March 11, 2009 / 9:45 PM
it has been such a long time i finally managed to find so much time to blog again. ahakz. blame all my projects that is coming to due date soon at the end of the month. and soon, in a mth time, i gonna face another examination mood. yup, my first paper falls on 24 april.
hmmm, anyway, i won't talk about myself in this entry. coz i wanna concentrate on what happened on 27 and 28 feb. at vivo. guess what?
do you know that there is such event happened during that time, supported by the newspaper?
and yes. i went there to take a look. give my fullest support. not for myself but for my dearest darling sheila & her fiance, endy. they took part in the "blossiming love" held at vivo. on 27 feb, it is the quarter-final round and congratulations to them coz they made it to the semi-final round the next day.
but sadly, they didn't made it to the final. i think one of the game pull their scores. but neverthelss, most importantly, both of you still in love with each other. =)
enjoy the pictures below.
27 feb 2009
these are all the couples that made it to the semi-final round.
sheila & endy on stage.
sheila & endy at the end of the event.
28 feb 2009
today is the day when all couples were given sponsor bridal clothes to wear during the event. and simply beautiful and handsome on both sheila & endy. although sheila didn't manage to get the bridal wear that she wanna (as it's based on first come first served basis & sizes), but she still look super pretty in that bridal clothes.
sheila on her post.
endy on his post.
sheila & endy 1.
sheila & endy 2.
sheila & endy 3.
sheila & endy 4.
there are 3 games that the couples have to play on this day.
1st - couples' hands & legs have to be tried together. they have to walk from one end to another, having a stalk of rose on their cheeks. they can't used their hands after they stepped out the white line. and i think during this game, they lose out coz they dropped the rose 2 times.
2nd - the couples will be blind folded. the ladies will sit down randomly. one by one the guy will out to the stage and they have to touch every woman hands. from there, they have to say out whether that woman is their partner. and surpringly, all of them manage to tell just by the touch of the hand. hahaha. power of love huh.
3rd - the guys will be sitting down this time around. but the guy have to fold their pants so that the ladies will touch their carf (i dunno how to spell that out) and from the touch as well, the ladies will be out one by one to tell if he is the right partner. at this stage, one of the ladies got it wrong.
anyway, had lots of fun. there are videos taken as well. but since it takes longer time, maybe some other day then i will post it here. =)
that's all folks.
anyway, before i sign off, i would like to wish my ex-colleague, jia hui aka road runner, jumbo a happy birthday and hopefully your day will be better ahead.
and to huimin, i'm sorry to hear about your grandma. i hope you are doing fine. stay strong ya. tkcare darling.
so tomorrow gonna be a big day for me. celebrating jia hui & baby birthday. and of course, after work i gonna go out with baby and we will celebrate it together. =)
Monday, March 2, 2009 / 12:05 AM
sometimes we just didn't realise that we hurt our loved ones' feelings. neither do i.
sometimes we just couldn't bother to give in and take in terms of a situation. neither do i.
sometimes we just don't understand each other when matter arised. neither do i.
sometimes we just didn't know how to show to our partners on how much we need them in our life. neither do i.
nevertheless, i do love you baby. and wanna be with you till the end of time. hoping that one day, god will answer our prayers. i'm sorry if i've hurt your feelings. afterall, you know and aware that i love you for sure.
muacks!
that's her
21 october 1987
libra
rabbit
full time student
part-time sales promoter
tutor
"what's meant to be yours will forever be yours."
looking at the stars
a wonderful husband who can lead
a property at good district
a car
a wonderful job
good salary
happy life with my loved ones
"your dreams will be yours if you try to achieve it not hoping."
adventure out
my baby
my darlings
real estate
golf
snooker/pool
bowling
tennis
driving
novels
chocolates
coffee
red
"happiness is due to your commitment you give in the things you like."
looking forward
my late grandma
rafael nadal
nemanja vidic
"woman is the man's backbone to success & vice versa."
the ice-cream cake.
chocolate cake.
2 candles. one for my baby. one for jiahui. we can't have 57 candles ryte? hahaha.
all cailing's plan to put their middle name on the cake. jiajia still sounds not bad. but nana for my baby? it's really a girl's name. haha.
from left: huimin, cailing, jiahui.
from left: jiahui, skye, baby & mike (facing back of the camera).
cutting cake time.
jiahui cuts the cake.
candid jiahui & baby (looking at cailing's camera).
my honour birthday boys. oopz, they no longer boy already. should be men. hehe.
baby, muka maintain lah sayang. ahakz.
happy sayang i nie. hehe.
baby cuts the cake.
baby, i melted looking at your face. it always put a smile on my face. happy birthday baby!
last but not least - group photo. but sadly, didn't manage to get the picture together with the cake. gonna take from cailing the other photo coz hers have the cake as well in the picture.
i said, "baby, i can't buy you ps3 as what you wish but this is small token for me to you on your birthday. hope you like it."
"to my dearest baby, abu hanafiah."
"for the man i love. i know that on your birthday you don't like a lot of fuss. and mushy, gooey sentiment just makes you want to cuss. i guess you might be happier if i would just ignore ya...."
"....but honey, that's impossible because i just adore ya! happy birthday."
so, whay do you think is inside the box?
yup, it's a psp just for you baby!
do you know that there is such event happened during that time, supported by the newspaper?
these are all the couples that made it to the semi-final round.
sheila & endy on stage.
sheila & endy at the end of the event. 
sheila on her post. 
endy on his post.
sheila & endy 1.
sheila & endy 2.
sheila & endy 3.
sheila & endy 4.
nevertheless, i do love you baby. and wanna be with you till the end of time. hoping that one day, god will answer our prayers. i'm sorry if i've hurt your feelings. afterall, you know and aware that i love you for sure.